All my life I used to think that women only cared about money, fame, and good looks.
And while it’s still somewhat true…
In my journey to becoming good with women, I discovered 3 things that made girls chase me.
And surprisingly it did not involve money, fame, or surgical enhancements.
Instead, it was a shift in my actions that made it effortless to attract women.
Here are the 3 things that turned me into an attractive man that women dream about.
1. An Attractive Man Never Puts Women First
What?
I know. It took me 5 years to grasp this concept.
I can still remember clearly. It was during my late teens. And during that time all I ever thought about was girls, girls, and girls.
The problem with this mindset was that I gave women so much importance that this was the exact reason why I was not successful.
Back then I assumed that to get girls, I needed to try harder - but boy was I wrong.
The time where things finally began clicking for me was during my last year in college which I had a ton of things on my plate such as school, work internship, & business.
As you can see, there was little time for chasing girls.
But once in a while, I had a tiny space of free time to go out and meet women.
And it was during those times where I finally saw results.
I attracted my first ever friends with benefits, and I was consistently hooking up with girls that I once thought were out of my league before.
Although I did not have the time to start relationships with any of the girls I met during that time, I casually dated until I finished college.
This was the solid foundation that started everything for me.
2. An Attractive Man Looks Good For Himself
This learning experience I got when I completely fell flat in my health.
I was weighing 120 lbs. and my body looked malnourished. Maybe I’m exaggerating but I definitely was not in shape.
It was time to hit the gym again...
I also want to mention that during this time I was in a monogamous relationship with a girl that I still adore to this day. We’ll call her Cindy for story purposes.
And once I began to eat right again, hitting the gym 3-4 times a week, and taking care of my health…
I saw our relationship shift from meh to greatness. To put this into perspective, sex became 10x better and my energy levels increased dramatically.
The perks were that even my girlfriend began to dress up nice for me and buy me gifts - as if we were dating for the first time again.
It was nuts. And when I went out with my buddies at night, girls were giving me more attention than ever before.
Basically, life became better. Mostly because I did this for myself. Bonus points for improving my relationship with my girlfriend and getting more attention from girls.
Overall, the key takeaway from this experience is that you should look good for yourself and watch how the world rewards you.
3. An Attractive Man Embraces Chaos
This one may be difficult to understand if you have not experienced it yet…
But it’s so important that I’ll tell you about it anyways.
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned over the years dating multiple women is accepting that there will always be chaos.
Whether that’s girls not showing up on dates, your finances going to shit, or your health deteriorating…
An attractive man always finds a way to win.
An attractive man knows what it’s like to be under pressure and doesn’t break when uncertainty shows up...
Instead of running away as most men do - the attractive man looks at chaos straight in the eye and doesn’t flinch.
So, if you are someone who breaks under pressure or complains about the tiniest things in life, I can almost guarantee you are not successful with women.
There’s nothing more disgusting to a woman than seeing her man scared and not face his fears.
That’s the bad news.
The good news is that you change that.
So there you have it,
If you like what you read in today’s blog post - I challenge you to decide to change today. Become the man that women dream about.
Become the man that is always on his mission and women are an afterthought (you can still pursue women but there’s a better alternative).
Become the man that self-grooms, takes care of himself, and cleans up nice. Not for others but for himself.
Become the man that embraces chaos and always seeks to win even in the most challenging times.
Because that’s what attractive men do.
The choice is yours,
Kevin S.
P.S. If you are looking for ways to become an attractive man yourself and you need help. Ask me about the exclusive 12-week program that I’m running. Only a select few men can join. Will it be you?
kevin@kevinsalinas.com
