I’m going to keep it as simple as possible and if for any reason you have questions or would like to know more about a particular area that I discuss, I’ll give you more information towards the end of this blog post.

Deal?

Let’s begin.

From all my years learning dating and relationships - I’ve realized not everyone talks about this…

And this is to write down a description of your ideal type of woman.

It’s like the mindset of men nowadays is hooking up with ANY girl that comes their way. And this usually always guarantees failure and dissatisfaction later on.

So ideally, you’d ALWAYS want to write down your ideal type of girlfriend first before you start taking action.

Plus, writing down the type of woman you want to date helps you know what to look for in girls and automatically puts you into the category of a man who has options.

As you begin to write your description of the type of girl you want to date, it’s best to be super detailed.

If you find yourself struggling in this part, try closing your eyes and picturing a girl in front of you that you’d be delighted to go on a date with.

Not bad, right?

Let’s move forward.

Now that you know the type of girl you want to meet, it’s time to check where she hangs out.

I should also mention, it should be a place where there are vast amounts of the type of woman you want to meet.

This puts you in abundance and allows you to increase your chances of going on more dates with that type of woman.

See, if you pick a location or place that has only a handful of women that you want to date, then it becomes hard to be free from the outcome.

And you’ll become super needy on dates which we don’t want to do because it turns women off completely.

Another reason why it’s super important you find a place that has hundreds of women that match your ideal type of girlfriend is because it will give you an idea - if the place that you live now is optimal for your dating life.

I don’t want to go into much detail about this here but it’s important to live in a location that has the types of women you want to meet in masses.

This makes it easy to bump into your dream girlfriends without much effort daily and increases your chances of meeting her.

Once you know where your ideal type of girlfriend hangs out, it’s time to design a game plan of how you will meet her.

Will you have to move? Will you have to commute? Will you have to do online dating?

This gets your mind figuring out ways to meet these types of women in abundance.

Once you figure this out, outline how many days of the week will you go out.

How many hours a day will you approach women? What days of the week will be reserved for dates? etc.

If you saw that online dating was better for you, how many messages do you have to send daily?

Is your dating profile optimal enough to match with them? What dating app are you going to use? etc.

I hope by now you are starting to see that we are optimizing your chances to not fail and start attracting your ideal type of girlfriend.

And this is the FASTEST way to do this and not have to settle for below-average girls.

Now that you have your game plan set and you know the number of hours per week you will invest in meeting your ideal girlfriends...

It’s now time to take action in getting these girls interested in you.

Whether that’s approaching women or sending them messages via online, you will need a foolproof process (A to B) to get them to say “yes” to your intentions.

But how and what process should you pick?

I’m aware that there is a ton of advice out on the internet, so I’ll quickly give you an outline of what has worked for me and you choose what’s best for you.

Again, this blog post is to be short and right to the point but stay tuned until the end for more information.

So, one way a dating process can look like is in the following mini-flow-chart.

"Approach" is the part where you get a girl’s attention. It’s either by sending her a solid message online that gets her to respond - or if you are out in the day - it’s the way you approach her that gets her to talk to you without hesitation. If you do this right, oftentimes she’s the one who starts asking you questions first.

"Conversation" is the part where you show her your personality, confidence, and willingness to walk away at any moment without fear of loss. In online dating, it can be the message thread of a topic that you talk about - and that quickly gets her off the dating app. Here is where you can also spark attraction and get her even more interested in you.

"Date" part is self-explanatory but it’s your chance to take things more intimate with her. The fact she’s agreed to go on a date with you means she’s open to see what you are about and it’s the first major sign that she sees you as a potential lover. Here you can also solidify comfort with her even more and she can trust you enough to either schedule another date with her for another time or directly go back to your apartment.

"Sex" part is also self-explanatory but it’s the last section of the dating process where a woman agrees to make you her lover and emotionally and sexually connect with you. It’s perhaps the best feeling in the world and if you play your cards right, she can become your girlfriend afterward. Depending on if that’s what she’s also looking for at the time.

And do yourself a favor right now and stop thinking of anything else.

We could go much deeper into how and why this flowchart works but this is for another time.

For now, see this dating process as one way to start taking action in meeting your ideal type of woman.

Now that you have everything you need to start meeting your ideal type of woman, it’s time for massive action.

You will go to the locations where your dream women hangout (or if it’s online dating, pick the best dating app), and simply execute.

The thing to always remember here is that rejection does not matter. Every day that you put yourself out there gets you closer and closer to dating your ideal girlfriend(s).

And ZERO amount of dating advice or tactics will ever replace this.

Taking action alone automatically puts you in the TOP 20% of men who get 80% of women.

And perhaps your goal is not to date a lot of women but don’t be surprised if you end up doing so!

So during your dating process, you should be racking up some phone numbers and going on dates with women.

And if you find yourself to be a complete natural, this stuff will come easy to you. You’ll know what to say, what to do, etc.

But if you are not, keep reading.

Here all we will do is build a connection with women and display that we are not creeps - and we also make sure the girls we date aren’t psychos neither. It works both ways.

During your dates with women, it’s in your best interest to see if there are any signs of mutual attraction.

The date is a way to weed out the girls who don’t make it to the second round.

Your mindset on these dates should be, “I’m getting to know her and seeing if there is sexual attraction between us.”

And only if there is, we proceed to the next stage.

Now, I’m going to be honest here.

If you are experienced dating women, you ideally want to move the date back to your location or bird’s nest afterward. That’s highly recommended.

But if you are not there yet, that’s okay.

You can always schedule a second date and bring the party to your place next time. That’s totally up to you.

Also, keep in mind that after all the dates that you go on, you’ll begin to see a pattern for the types of girls that you did have a great time with and the ones that you did not.

Here is where you decide which girl out of the girls you’ve met get a second chance.

The beauty here is that we are now the person that chooses our potential girlfriends instead of the other way around.

See, when you don’t know the type of woman you want to date, you simply settle down with anything available to you, and oftentimes it ends up backfiring.

I’ve seen many situations where guys don’t enjoy the relationships that they are in and are in their 10th breakup this month.

Don’t let that be you.

These are the 7 easy steps that you can do today if you’d like to get a girlfriend from scratch.

And as promised, I did say that if you have any questions in regards to anything that I’ve covered so far in this blog post, I will answer your questions.

The best way to do that is to message me directly at kevin@kevinsalinas.com

My hours of operation are usually M - F from 9 am - 5 pm New York time.

See you in the next post,

Kevin S.